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21 February 2000

Wedding day

Memories don't come more sacred and special.















Wedding Night


The next morning



Honeymoon in Franschhoek



Coming home to find flower petals on our bed




Video of our wedding ceremony





Note to Ally



Card written by Ally on our wedding anniversary

I am blessed to have you in my life
My delicious lover
My best friend
My number 1 hug man

I often tell you that I love you but I don't tell you why - well, here are just a handful of reasons:
  • you listen, I mean really listen to me 
  • you are interested in all I do
  • you support and encourage me to achieve all my dreams
  • you kiss me goodnight
  • you always look at me with such love and warmth
  • you laugh, shout, cry and celebrate with me
  • you cuddle me, even in your sleep!
  • you want me to be just me
  • you kiss me just because you want to


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12 February 2000

Shows I've seen



Childhood

  • South Pacific


School years

  • Several Shakespeare plays at Maynardville (including The Tempest, Midsummer's Night)


University years

  • District 6
  • Madam Butterfly


Old Mutual years

  • River Dance
  • The Buddy Holly Story


London (1997)

  • Phantom of The Opera
  • Jesus Christ Superstar
  • Miss Saigon


London (2000 - 2005)

  • Chicago
  • Les Miserables
  • Boy George
  • Lady Windermere's Fan
  • Shock Headed Peter
  • Starlight Express
  • Vagina Monologues
  • The Importance of being Oscar
  • The Mikado
  • Mama Mia
  • Joseph
  • The Lion King


Australia

  • Pricilla Queen of the Desert (with Ally & Kerri)
  • Jersey Boys (with Lizzy)
  • Chorus Line  (with Dani)
  • Anything Goes (with Sue)
  • Evita (with Christina)


Cape Town visits

  • Annie
  • Ndlovu Choir

11 February 2000

Concerts I've seen


  • Brian Adams (Cape Town, 1995)
  • Natalie Cole (Cape Town, 1995)
  • Sarah Brightman (Cape Town, 1995)
  • Michael Jackson (Amsterdam, 1997)
  • Brian Adams
  • Pavarotti (London, 2000)
  • Night at the Proms (London, 2004)
  • Prague Classical (Prague, 2004)

10 February 2000

Museums I've explored


Cape Town

  • The Castle (1980)
  • Science Centre (2009)


London

  • British National Museum (history) (1997)
  • British Natural History Museum (1997)
  • Imperial War Museum  (1997)
  • London Dungeon (1997)
  • London Tower (1997)
  • Madam Tassauds (1997)
  • Theatre Museum (1997)
  • Museum of Moving Images (1997)
  • Museum of Natural History (1997)
  • Science Museum (1997)
  • National Art Museum (2000)


Duxford (UK)

  • Imperial War Museum (2004)


Amsterdam

  • Modern Art Museum (1997)
  • Nan Goldin exhibition (Modern Art Museum, 1997)
  • Torture Museum (1997)
  • Van Gogh Museum (1997)
  • Rijksmuseum (1997)
  • Sex Museum (1997)
  • Ann Frank museum (1997)


Prague

  • Communist Museum (2004)


Cairo

  • Egyptian Museum (1997)


Wellington, New Zealand

  • Te Papa Tongarewa Museum  (2008)


Sydney

  • The Power Museum (2019)
  • Museum of Contemporary Art (2019)
  • Powerhouse Museum (2019)
  • NSW Art Galley (2019)
  • Maritime Museum (2024)


Newnes (Australia)

  • Small Arms museum (2018)

22 January 2000

Favourite movies watched (2000)

  • Gladiator (2000)
  • Almost Famous (2000)
  • Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon (2000)
  • Memento (2000)
  • Vertical Limit (2000)
  • American Psycho (2000)
  • Requiem for a Dream (2000)
  • Erin Brockovich (2000)
  • Billy Elliot (2000)
  • Oh Brother, Where Art Thou? (2000)
  • Coyote Ugly (2000)
  • High Fidelity (2000)
  • Cast Away (2000)
  • Sexy Beast (2000)
  • Da Ali G Show
















3 January 2000

Fiction & biography books read (London Years: 2000 - 2003)

 

Biography

  • Into Thin Air (John Krakauer)
  • Into the Wild (John Krakauer)




Fiction

  • The Lord of the Rings (JRR Tolkien)
  • The Alchemist (Paulo Coelho)
  • Harry Potter and the Philosopher's Stone (J.K. Rowling)
  • Harry Potter and the Chamber of Secrets (J.K. Rowling)
  • Harry Potter and the Prisoner of Azkaban (J.K. Rowling)
  • Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire (J.K. Rowling)
  • Harry Potter and the Order of the Phoenix (J.K. Rowling)
  • Animal Farm (George Orwell)
  • Bridget Jones's Diary (Helen Fielding)
  • Guards! Guards! (Terry Pratchett)
  • Lord Of The Flies (William Golding)
  • Memoirs Of A Geisha (Arthur Golden)
  • Rebecca (Daphne du Maurier)
  • The Catcher in the Rye (JD Salinger)
  • The God Of Small Things (Arundhati Roy)
  • To Kill a Mockingbird (Harper Lee)










    1 January 2000

    London years (2000 - 2003)

    "I thought of Paris as a beauty spot on the face of the earth, and of London as a big freckle."  James Weldon Johnson



    Moving to London

    In April 2000, Ally and I moved to London.  We found a cosy one bedroom apartment in Hammersmith above a restaurant called "The Grove" that specialised in delicious rib eye steaks. 

     
    Working for Siegelgale

    The Internet boom was in full swing and I found a job quickly and easily, working as a consultant for a branding company called Siegelgale.  It was a young, vibrant company that was growing fast.  I was new to branding so it was a fast learning curve as I learned the art of creating "brand souls" for companies and helping them to reflect it in everything they did.  It was a client facing and fast paced job after the snail pace of Old Mutual so I found it quite difficult and had to put in long hours.  The people were great though including Peter Gibson, the CEO, who was extremely fun, creative and zany.

    Some of my highlights at Siegelgale were personally coming up with the name of a Polish Bank (Intelligo), creating a brand strategy for Safe Host (an Internet hosting company based in Switzerland), and working with Peter Gibson and Anita on a huge project to rebrand a leading Israeli bank called Bank Hapoalim.  The last project necessitated weekly trips to Tel Aviv which I loved.  The project took well over 6 months and and our project team and clients became a very close knit group.


    Life in London

    In our spare time, Ally and I made the most of living in London.  I bought rollerblades and every Sunday, rollerbladed from Hammersmith to Hyde Park to play touch rugby with a group of friends that included Mike, a good friend from South Africa days.  Both Ally and I also had bikes and that is how we mostly got around.  We lived very close to the Thames and on weekends, we would cycle along the river to Putney and watch the rowing competitions on the river.

    We had several friends living in London including Colleen and Jo and Steve and we often visited them and went on outings.  Later on, Ally's sister Kerri started working for a company that did marketing for theatres and she had access to lots of free tickets so I got to watch many free shows such as Vagina Monologues, All Off, Lady Windermere's Fan and Shock Headed Peter.

    Other highlights were Jo and Anthony, mum and Mike and Rosemarie and Nick coming to stay with us.   We also got to visit Cape Town on a couple of occasions where I was reunited with my best friend, Russel  and we attended the weddings of Dirk and Bronwyn, Fraser and Jo and Steve .  Mum and Mike also got married and their wedding was very special indeed, especially as Gran and Gramps were able to be there and see mum so happy.  Another major highlight was when Sammy was born in 2000 (we were in Cape Town at the time) and when Matthew was born in 2003.


    Travel and tour leading

    In September 2001, as the Internet bubble burst, Siegelgale started laying off its staff and it closed its London office not long after.  I found myself unemployed and with so many Internet specialists retrenched, it was impossible to find a job.

    I used the opportunity to do some travel.  I spent 6 weeks in Africa doing a trip from Cape Town to Nairobi (in Kenya) with an overland company.  Right after that, I spent an unforgettable month in Nepal hiking the Annapurna Circuit (a three week hike through the Himalayas) and visiting the Chitwan National Park.  I fell totally in love with Nepal - both the scenery and the people.  I experienced true peace while hiking in the mountains and it was a spiritual renaissance for me.  I met a wonderful guy called Sanjay who I'm still in touch with to this day.

    I returned to London but the job situation was still very bad.  My trip through Africa had made me really keen to try out tourleading, so with Ally's blessing (she was so supportive), I phoned up all the tourleading companies in the UK.  I did not have experience as a tourleader so mostly hit brickwalls at first but then I lucked out when I phoned Oasis Overland who urgently needed a tourleader in the Middle East (an area I knew thanks to my trip in 2007). 

    I spent the next 5 months leading overland trips from Istanbul in Turkey to Cairo in Egypt with stops in Syria and Jordan.  I was responsible for 30 young people (mostly Aussies and Kiwis) in the back of a big yellow truck.  It was quite stressful at first but I soon relaxed into it and I experienced the 5 most exciting and fulfilling months of my life.  I learned to cook Spaghetti Bolonaise for 30 people, learned how to bribe Syrian border officials. I organised the travel itinerary and booked accomodation and local guides.  I coped with all sorts of crises and problems.  And loved every minute of it. My confidence flourished. 

    After 5 months, I returned to London to be reunited with Ally.  Adam, Ally's 18 year old cousin, came to stay with us for a while and we all had lots of fun times together.  Ally and I also spent an idyllic week in Barbados.  Later on, we also had a holiday in Croatia


    Working for Volvo

    Then I received a call from Volvo from a guy called Mats who said they had seen my CV and had a challenging role for me.  The role was based in Cambridge at the European headquarters and involved taking all of Volvo's fragmented hotchpotch of Internet sites and consolidating it into a seamless experience on one system.  See more about the project.

    It was a wonderful job.  The people were great and I got to do lots of travelling, especially to Sweden, but also to the US and Brazil where I got to see the Iguazu Falls.  My favourite part of the job was training staff on the new system which allowed me to meet people from all over the world.  Our project team consisted of just 3 people (Mats, a dynamic and friendly guy, Caroline who I became very good friends with and myself.)  But together we were a great team and we made a very substantial difference to Volvo's global Internet presence. 

    The only drawback to the job was the fact I needed to commute from London to Cambridge.  I solved this by staying in a Bed and Breakfast for several nights of the week.  But it was expensive and not ideal.  So after a year at Volvo, Ally and I decided to relocate to Cambridge.  And a new chapter in our lives began.


    List of memories of our time in London

    Arriving
    • Staying with Ally´s friend, Vicky
    • Easy Internet on Tottenham Court road

    Leisure activities
    • Touch rugby at Hyde Park & the pub afterwards for shandy and roast beef
    • Gareth, Wheels, Tanya, Mike (touch rugby)
    • Rollerblading to Hyde Park every Sunday to play touch rugby
    • Plays courtesy of Kerry (Vagina Monologues, All Off, Lady Windermere's Fan, Shock Headed Peter)
    • Biking round London
    • Cycling along the Thames
    • Cycling round London (Queens Way, Leicester Square)
    • Tennis with Mike

    Family and friends

    Movies, TV, music
    • The Office (TV comedy series)
    • Lord of the Rings movies
    • Classical music on minidisk
    • Big Brother
    • Pop Idol (Simon Cowell, rooting for Will Young)
    • Listening to David Gray (especially Sail Away) on train
    • Norah Jones in Cambridge, especially "Come Away with Me."

    Books
    • Discovering and reading the Harry Potter books
    • "Conversations with God" Neale Donald Walsch
    • Web books on design when got Volvo job

    Gadgets, computer
    • Minidisk player (Xmas 2001)
    • Classical music on minidisk player
    • Playing with new lap top
    • Web surfing and seeing blogs - the seed of getting this one

    Personal development and spirituality
    • Landmark Forum
    • Career counselling
    • Eve Dolphin
    • Chi Gong
    • Thai chi

    Between jobs
    • Paintball martial
    • Barclays flow interview
    • Prudential presentation
    • Oasis interview
    • Trafalgar interview 

    Plays, exhibitions, concerts
    • Body World's Exhibitions
    • Les Miserables
    • Pavarotti in Hyde Park
    • Royal Geographic Society (Blue Planet + Ultimate Killers)

    Food
    • Tescos Crème Caramel
    • The Grove rib-eye steak
    • Roast beef & Yorkshire pudding (touch rugby)
    • Eating at the Oxo Towers

    Travel

    Siegelgale  (Apr 2000 - Jun 2001)
    • "Team building" fun day out with Siegelgale
    • The great view from Siegelgale Offices
    • Sushi lunches from Tescos
    • Safe Host project
    • Infuzer 
    • Coming up with the name for Intelligo
    • Bank Hapoalim branding project - all the visits to Tel Aviv
    • Gerry, Kate, Peter, Javed, Brad, Anita, Ken, Becky, John, Aaron and co

    Volvo  (2003)
    • Start working for Volvo
    • Staying with Johnathon and Amanda in Cambridge
    • Meeting Andrew, Mats, Caroline, Richard and Andreas
    • CMS Training
    • Multiple trips to Gothenberg
    • Trip to Asheville
    • Staying over in Duxford B&B with "Aunt Linda"
    • Duxford Pub
    • Train trips from London to Duxford
    • Trip to Brazil, Asheville (rafting), Gothenburg



    Cape Town visits


    Russell

    Nokia phone

    A lovely compact phone and the predictive text makes sending messages quite easy.

     




    10 April 1999

    Jo's letter to Gramps on his 80th birthday

    To dear Grandpa

    You and I have shared some really wonderful memories during the years that we have known each other. There is no way I will ever be able to say just how much I love you and appreciate every step of the way that our lives have been joined together. Here are just a few of the memories that I will always hold dear to me. Please forgive me for only being able to write about so few of them but believe me, the others are all safely tucked up in my heart!!


    I REMEMBER...

    • Being really young the first time that we came out to England to visit you and Granny. Our first trip arrived with me having a boyish-cropped haircut (compliments of my brother) and a black and blue finger (thanks to the toilet door). Luckily I learnt my lesson and our travelling history during the past 15 years has not been as exciting!! I remember being surrounded by lego given to us as our Christmas present and I said to Graeme one night as we were about to fall asleep, “Graeme, I wonder if God will let us bring our lego to heaven with us when we die?” Oh, the joy we had with our roller skates – flying down your driveway at a rate of knots giving you all grey hairs and dad having to make cardboard outers to prevent our shoes getting ruined beyond repair. How we loved our time in England, watching the horses in the paddocks near your house, walking along Brighton Pier, eating roast beef and Yorkshire pudding and getting to know you and Granny in our young lives.
    • The thrill Graeme and I would feel when we knew that you were coming out to South Africa to visit us. We still don’t know how you put up with our teasing whenever we drove past the sewerage works on the N2 and cried out, “Poofie Grandpa!!” visit after visit. I loved the mornings when I could knock on the door in the out-side room and bring you a cup of tea before I had to go to school. I would much rather have sat on your bed listening to all your stories than getting to my class on time.
    • All the fun times swimming with you in the pool and surfing at the beach (made even more fun when you lost your swimming short in a freak wave!). I remember watching you bake in the sun before taking us to buy ice-creams at St James.
    • How happy we all were when we heard that you were immigrating to Cape Town. Mom and I would go to all the show houses on a Sunday and imagine our joy when we found a house for you just a stones throw away from Bertram Crescent. I remember cycling round to visit you after school only to find out that dad had long since beat me to it with his “drinksie” stop at 12 o’clock! I also remember how the two of you would sit on the porch while you trimmed his beard for him every few weeks. (Just an excuse for another chat and drinksie stop if you ask me!!) You were always so house proud and were always out maintaining the garden or helping granny wash the dishes after our delicious meals at your house (that includes her “lumpy custard”!!).
    • The most magical day of my life when you were able to stand in for dad and walk me down the aisle on one of the most important days of my life. All my friends commented on how proud you were and how lucky I am to have such a fantastic granddad. This is definitely something that I thank my lucky stars for every night!

    WHAT I LOVE ABOUT YOU

    • Your beautiful (sorry, handsome) face
    • Your dark suntan in your bowling gear
    • Your generosity, kindness, honesty and openness
    • Your warmth, support, caring nature and being able to cry at the movies
    • Your ease and sincerity at which you always tell me how much you love me
    • Knowing that I have made you proud (and only you could have thought of having my medals framed)
    • How much you care for Granny and the way you go to the end of the earth to make sure she is well cared for and looked after
    • Your friendliness and the way you can start up a conversation with anyone that you meet
    • The way you love your hugs and kisses
    • The way you have accepted Antony as part of our family and the way you two can talk for hours about cricket and rugby. Let alone your passion for a good bottle of red wine!
    • The way that you have always tried to build up my confidence and make me feel secure in myself
    • The way you are able to accept the changes taking place in your life and to appreciate everything that you have got. To be able to look back on your life with so little regret and to know that you have lived your life to the fullest!!

    With all my love forever
    Joanne

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