- The Power Of One (Bryce Courtenay)
- It (Stephen King)
- Pet Cemetery (Stephen King)
- John Grisham (The Firm)
- River God (Wilbur Smith)
- Kane And Abel (Jeffrey Archer)
- Not a Penny More, Not a Penny Less (Jeffrey Archer)
- Shall We Tell the President (Jeffrey Archer)
- A Quiver Full of Arrows (Jeffrey Archer)
- The Bourne Identity (Robert Ludlum)
- Interview with the Vampire (Anne Rice)
Life Trove
A celebration of treasured moments
17 May 1989
Fiction books read (University of Cape Town: 1989 - 1994)
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15 May 1989
Gratitude (University years: 1989 - 1993)
UCT
- The vibe and life-style
- The library
- Thesis at Old Mutual through Martha
- Getting my first computer
- Mum to do our typing
- Able to use some credits in final year
Willow Road
- So much better than that flat in Rondebosch
- Able to have 3 housemates: financial abundance
- Close to UCT
- Lovely housemates: Dain, Eleda, Andre, Oliver
- Didn't sleep with Allison
Choice of course
- Doing marketing, setting me up for the web and travel (which would lead to Wisdom Trove)
- I don't think I'd have had patience for zoology, plus depression of watching nature being destroyed
- Didn't continue with finance
Friends
- Tony in first year
- Julian, Ivor and Rory in my life
- Russell in final year
Ally
- Going camping with Julian and Ivor when I did
- Ally came into my life when I desperately needed someone to - conquered my appearance obsession
- Ally had recently broken up
- All the memories of our courtship (one of most special times of my life)
- My financial abundance, able to share that, go away to wonderful places
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-1989 1993,
grateful
1 May 1989
Priceless moments (University years: 1989 - 1993)
General
- My 21st birthday party at Willow Road
- Llandudno boogey boarding, bat & ball
- Joy while walking
- Lazerquest
- Swimming at Constantia Gym
- Ambassadors and youth club camps
- Buying my music system - my 21st party
- Fun with Ivor - great laughs and chats
- Moving into Willow Road and painting
- Buying Willow Road and painting it
- Getting my first car (Gertrude)
University
- New computer - first assignment
- Thesis and stats
- Maths 102
Away
- Storm's River (water logic)
- Grahamstown Festival
- Tsitsikama Trail
- Camping at Bain's Kloof
- Camps with Shirly and co (Greyton)
- Betties Bay, Pringle Bay (with Rusconi's)
- Ndumu with Tony
- Mkuzi, Umfolozi with dad
Dancing
- Robbin Island with Moira
- Ball room dancing
- Viennese Ball with Caroline
Ally
- Meeting Ally
- Early relationship
- Palmiet & New Year's eve with feather
- Skinny dip + locomotion
- First kiss.
- Kirstenbosch date
- Restaurants with Ally (Over Top, On the Rocks, Le Perla, Le Petit Ferme)
- Weekends with Ally at lodges (Franschhoek, Greyton, Montagu, Elgin lake)
- Ally 3rd month anniversary
- Our picnics at Jonkershoek
- Buy skin products and clothes
- Surprise Chinese dinner in my room - first time nookie
- Bath together - Ally shy
- Allikins, " ffff-first"
- Ally's cards
- Dress making for Ally - Viennese Ball
- I love you - 1st (3 month anniversary at Melkbos + Table View restaurant)
- Kitch party
- Melkbos flat
- You are so naugty!, "Have I told you lately I love you...", "I'm finding you very attractive right now..." Nookie
- Licked for 1st time
- Yacht club party (kiss on windsurfers, see her in underwear, lose way)
- Queenspark changing room.
Birds
- African Finfoot (Nature's Valley)
- Black Eagles (Devil's peak)
- Green Coucal (Mkuzi)
- Half collared kingfisher
- Narina Trogon (Ndumu)
- Pel's Fishing Owl (Ndumu)
Movies
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Spiritual Diary
3 March 1989
Spiritual moments (University years: 1989 - 1993)
- Joy while walking
- TM Meditation course
- The Alexander Technique and the feelings of effortlessness and peace I experienced as a result.
- Awakenings (movie) - release
- Storm's River camping by ocean (water logic)
- Ally and the feather on New Year's Eve
- Oliver and laughing about our baldness
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2 March 1989
Practicing the Alexander Technique
Background
I was motivated to practice the Alexander Technique due to pain in my back and neck, caused by poor posture and bodily tension.
The Alexander Technique involves being peripherally aware in the midst of every movement of the body to minimise effort and tensing of the body. It had a profound and lasting effect on me.
My teacher was a beautiful, calm woman who embodied what she taught. We practiced at her house in Newlands and often used her lovely garden. I have vivid memories of performing various actions (walking, sitting, lying, opening a door) and she would instruct in a gentle hands on way.
How The Alexander Technique inspired and influenced me
- The Alexander Technique directly influenced my "calmness mantra" which become something I repeated countless times until it osmosed into my being. I still use this mantra on a regular basis. You can read the mantra below.
- The Alexander Technique inspired my increasing interest in spirituality and meditation - inspiring me to do a TM meditation course and read spiritual books. It also inspired my later interest in Tai Chi.
- During my Old Mutual years, I practiced a form of self developed meditative motion inspired by The Alexander Technique. It involved a series of effortless movements done in a state of deep awareness, often to music.
- The Alexander Technique inspired the principle of "spaciousness" that formally emerged around 2013 and is now one of the three cornerstones of my spiritual journey (Presence, Surrender, Spaciousness). Spaciousness is all about remaining open and relaxed in the midst of all experience, including uncomfortable sensations and emotion in the body.
- The Alexander Technique was my informal introduction to Presence (being in a state of awareness in the midst of activity).
Insights gained by learning and practising The Alexander Technique
- Where we instinctively tense up, we can learn to let go and loosen.
- End-goaling and striving is counter-productive. When we relax into our natural state, we become far more effective and happy.
- If you want to see perfect posture, watch a very young child.
- The head and neck should be relaxed. Imagine a string with a helium balloon hitched to the back of your head, pulling your head and posture very gently up.
- The traditional shoulders back, chest out, back straight instruction for posture is counter-productive. The shoulders should be relaxed and the back should be allowed to rest in it's natural curve.
- Rush not. Take your time.
- The power of doing everything in a state of open awareness.
My Calmness Mantra (inspired by The Alexander Technique)
- Effortless in mind and body, I nurture and inmost calm in all I do.
- I flow with the journey, letting it unfold with time.
- I act where I can, then allow all to flow.
- I am relaxed and centred, letting nothing phase me.
- Rush not, I take my time. Strive not, I let it happen. Grasp not, I let go.
- I live a relaxed stroll, letting nothing phase.
- Supported below, each movement is a change to release.
F.M. Alexander, the founder of the technique
1 February 1989
Challenges (University years: 1989 - 1993)
Mood
- Obsession re attractiveness (losing hair)
- Feeling low at times (bath, outside house, way to work)
University
- Fail accounting
- Final exams "fail" marketing
- Fashion award
Physical
- Shoulder sore (move into Willow Road)
- My sore neck (started in Mukuzi, gave up course)
- Sore back (especially dampening first year's freshers' week)
- Sore joints (knees)
- Erection fears early on (Ally)
- Penis painful
Confidence and envy
- Steven sleeping with lovely girl - jealous, will I ever?
- Pretending to spend night out (stay in bathroom)
- Missed opportunity with Allison
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23 January 1989
Favourite movies watched (University Years: 1989 - 1993)
- Schindler's List (1993)
- Groundhog Day (1993)
- The Fugitive (1993)
- Jurassic Park (1993)
- Cliffhanger (1993)
- Indecent Proposal (1993)
- The Remains of the Day (1993)
- True Romance (1993)
- The Bodyguard (1992)
- Unforgiven (1992)
- Reservoir Dogs (1992)
- Scent of a Woman (1992)
- Basic Instinct (1992)
- A Few Good Men (1992)
- The Last of the Mohicans (1992)
- Strictly Ballroom (1992)
- The Silence of the Lambs (1991)
- Point Break (1991)
- Terminator 2: Judgment Day (1991)
- Beauty and the Beast (1991)
- The Commitments (1991)
- Cape Fear (1991)
- Thelma and Louise (1991)
- The Doors (1991)
- Dances with Wolves (1990)
- Die Hard 2 (1990)
- Pretty Woman (1990)
- Awakenings (1990)
- Total Recall (1990)
- Edward Scissorhands (1990)
- Ghost (1990)
- Presumed Innocent (1990)
- Nikita (1990)
- Miller's Crossing (1990)
- Indiana Jones and the Last Crusade (1989)
- Dead Poets Society (1989)
- Back to the Future Part II (1989)
- Sex, Lies and Videotape (1989)
- When Harry Met Sally (1989)
- Dead Calm (1989)
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